The relationship between the Betel Leaves and Sri Lankan Culture
A sheaf of betel is associated almost with every important event and milestone of our lives.It is used in welcoming,showing reverence,communicating good and bad news and demonstrating social give and take. In the rural society even today a visitor to the house is made welcome by offering betel leaves from the tray.Sharing betel is a sign of companionship.The tray of betel leaves cuts across all social diatinictions and gives one equality.
In ancient times it was found in every household-rich or poor.It is also a sign of affection.One may prepare a chew for a relation or a friend as a token of companionshio.The betel is offered by the young to the elders as a symbol of respect.A person would offer it with the stem away from one's self.Sometimes he may go down on his knees,once the sheaf is accepted.On the Sinhala and Tamil New Year's day it is customary for the young to offer a sheaf of betel to the elders and worship them.
The chief guest for a cultural function would be invited with a sheaf of betel.At a funeral hose the betel is arranged upside down on the betel tray.A student on his first day in school after the new year would offer a sheaf of betel and worship his or her teacher.Betel is significant in the performance of the Sinhala marriage customs.Relatives are invited for wedding with the betel leaf,like an invitation card.
At ceremonies when money is exchanged the money would be on a betel leaf or wrapped in it.This adds dignity to the deed.This is because till recent times Sri Lankan society held no respect for cash.In the past, Buddhist priests and Ayurvedic physicians were never offered money.
